when you have to let go

hari ini, dakuh akan membagikan suatu renungan yang bisa bikin kita mikir. apa iya, sesusah itu untuk melepaskan seseorang dari hidup kita?
well, pada awalnya emang susah.. dakuh juga merasa gitu kok.. apalagi kalo seseorang itu udah lumayan dapet porsi yang cukup besar dalam hati kita..

well, the point is, dikau harus tegas, chyin!
look at the reality.. is that someone worth enough to fight for?
is he/she treat you as a priority? or maybe just an option?

baru-baru ini, dakuh baru membuat sebuah keputusan untuk letting go..
setelah menimbang-nimbang dan berpikir secara rasional (and did some reality testing, too, of course), akhirnya keputusan itu dibuat..

I'll tell you by these words..

the one who truly loves you, will never want to see you sad
he'll try everything just to make you smile
this is the one worth fighting for..

the one who "loves" you just for fun, will never care whether you're happy or sad when you're with them
all they care about is their own fun
this is the one you have to let go..

the one who truly loves you, will always be there for you
no matter you need them or not
this is the one worth fighting for..

the one who "loves" you just for fun, will always be there only if they need you
they won't be there when you need them
this is the one you have to let go..

when you're far from him, but he doesn't have any intention to chase another girls
this is the one worth fighting for..

when you're far from him, but he's still have a lot of girls to play with
this is the one you have to let go..

when he cares for you, yet he's still care with another girls
this is the one you have to let go..

when he cares for you, and only you
this is the one worth fighting for..

because letting go is not about impossibility..
it's about a decision..

so which one you choose? :)


a little note:
to someone worth fighting for in my life
thank you.. for showing me such a great love.. for always be there for me, even when i hurt you..
i realize now.. you're the one worth fighting for.. *big hug*

to someone i have to let go
well, this is the end.. no more "us".. because i realized, i was just your options.
and i don't want it anymore.. so i let you go.. :)